the bully is thin but very muscular he is about 19 yrs old and i%26#039;m only 18 he is very athletic but i do 2-3 mins of shadow boxing everyday because im a boxing fan so please help me on what to do|||hey,this is up to u dude,i had same problem when i was 15,i had this guy who was the same age as me and he challenged me to a fight and i **** myself coz he was taller than me,but one day i went home from school and this guy was at my door with about 20 kids giving lip to my mother,thinking i was in the house,i started to cry coz i was a fraid,but my mother pulled me to one side and told me that if i didnt sort this problem out now this guy would pick on me forever,so my mother told this guy if he wants to fight me to go around the our back garden and wait for me,so up the garden i went sobbing to myself,i put my hands up closed my fists and thought **** it ,its **** or bust,if i dont do this now im gonna regret it and get picked on forever,and u know what i punched this guys head in and got the respect off everyone in school coz this guy was the school bully and i just beat him,so if u want my advice ((run this jerk down and get him off your back,,,,,good luck|||Boxing is a skill...shadowboxing isn%26#039;t. If your opponent is trained, you%26#039;re gonna get eaten alive. See, your shadow never punches back, so that%26#039;s going to be a wake up call the fist time you%26#039;re hit...and my guess is that you don%26#039;t know what it%26#039;s like to take a hit from a trained fighter. Don%26#039;t do it, fighting your opponent on his terms is never smart.
Back in the days of dueling, the person who received the challenge got to pick the terms. Pistols, rapiers, sabers...whatever. It kept the person making the challenge from giving himself an unfair advantage by choosing terms. You received the challenge, you should be able to make the terms.|||You know, a man%26#039;s gotta do, what a man%26#039;s gotta do.....Is it right??? Maybe not but a man can never let another man bust him out like that. Of course the easy solution is to not fight. But bullies usually are annoying. But if he keeps bothering you and bothering you, I say let him know who%26#039;s boss!!! He might be muscular and athletic but this is not a sports arena(I%26#039;ve seen shorties picking on wannabe tough guys).
I%26#039;m usually the type of person that believes in what you get is what you deserve. It don%26#039;t matter if you bust a bat or fists or a weapon. Since Ancient times, everybody got what they deserve(even if it wasn%26#039;t right) and they didn%26#039;t care if they used knives or spikes. You die and you die. Is as simple as 1-2-3.
But now everyone thinks(especially men) that we are better than anyone(I usually hate people like that). So, sometimes I would bust them. Nobody can never tell me what I have or what I believe. This is my religion and it says to respect my fellow peers but sometimes people need to get the message. If they don%26#039;t, then you will get stomped..|||With gloves? Go for it! He will see you have some courage and probably leave you alone after that. If you say yes, he might not even take you up on it.|||How about dont fight. Seriously, it stupid. What is it good for? Unless its MMA or Boxing, and some stupid street fight that both of you can and probably will get arrested for. Dont fight man.|||ok very lil times walkin away is the best thing to, but like i said %26quot;very lil!!!%26quot; whoops his ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.Give him an angry stare n start cursing like no bodies businness. he will think u crazy n not want anything to do with u lol. good luck. show em whose boss|||win! or deline the match. protect your head and kidneys and take advantages in the openings he leaves. as far as skill, you dont have enough time to learn new tricks so work with what you have.|||well you are grown *** men so stop fighting like school children, but if you do go threw with it, break his ******* nose and don%26#039;t let up, just keep hitting him in the face, with everything(in fact watch a Bernard Hopkins fight, followed by an Andrew %26quot;the nut crusher%26quot; Golota fight)|||It has been my experience in life that if you walk away from trouble, it tends to follow you. I have never been what would be considered a %26quot;tough%26quot; person, but if you don%26#039;t respect yourself enough to stand up to a bully, then nobody will. Sad part is if you stand up to the bully, nobody will respect that either, people are big on disrespecting others now days, and things like honor, integrity and even common decency seem to have went out of style.
The choice to confront the bully or not is yours and yours alone, and you must decide if it is worth the hassle. I can tell you from personal experience, there is no greater feeling in the world than to be in the right, stand up to a bully and beat the s.o.b. down. Watching that arrogance flicker and turn to fear on their once belligerent face is it%26#039;s own reward.
Legally it is wrong to street fight, but standing up to a bully has a lot to do with how you carry yourself. If the bully gets physical first, throws a punch or otherwise assults you, make the choice prior to the encounter to either back down, or dig in and pound the crap out of him. A good beating adjusted a lot of bad attitudes over the years, and you will be doing him a favor, maybe even saving his life. The next guy he tries to bully may pull a gun and end his bullying forever, so by not taking his crap and working him over without killing the moron you are actually doing him a service. Making a better person out of an idiot is a social responsibility that is thrust on a lot of us, we don%26#039;t ask for the privelege, but when we encounter such people, it is a duty to adjust their attitude for them.
However you choose to deal with the problem, remember this: Honor and ingetrity are real possessions, and those who lack such attributes tend to try and destroy such qualities in others. Don%26#039;t allow them to take yours. I always answers such challanges with a hard right hand down the middle, and almost every time I started the fight out by throughing the first punch, 3 out of 4 times the bully%26#039;s continued with a broken nose, and I broke even winning and losing at about a 50% ratio. I never had to fight the same bully twice, so I guess I made my point. It is unfortuante that at times violence is unavoidable. Your choices are simple. Stop frequenting the places you know the bully will be, or walk up to him and blast him in the face and let the scene play out the way it plays out. I always figured even if I lose the fight, I at least nailed the s.o.b. with a good shot to start the fight. The older you get the less stuff like that means, but when you are young, it%26#039;s tough to avoid such confrontations.
Good luck, I hope it works out for the best.|||The guy above me is right. He might be the bigger man, but you can be the better man by rising above it, and walking away.|||You haven%26#039;t been very clear about the rules. Is it actually boxing or a street fight? Gloves or not? And where do you do it?
Others have given you reasons for declining or accepting the fight, and both have a degree of validity. I suggest you think long and hard about what they have said.
Assuming you decide to take the fight, how do you know you are not being set up for a mugging? Where is it? Indoors in a gym, or out in the woods? Is he bringing friends, and can you bring the same number? How can you trust the arrangements? If he%26#039;s a bully, as you say, then how do you know he won%26#039;t have friends hiding nearby? Has he had pre-arranged fights with others, and did he follow the rules with them? Can you verify this?
You can probably stand up to this one boy, but you can%26#039;t stand up to a gang, all by yourself, so you need some control over the arrangements. If he won%26#039;t agree to that, beware, because he might have something other than just a one-on-one fight in mind.|||Best think to do is walk away. That being said, most bullies intimidate people but are really just cowards. Hit him first, hit him hard and let adrenaline take over. If you win or lose, he will think twice about bulling you again.|||BEAT HIS ***!!!!|||I agree with the posts above, fighting is not the way to solve problems...with that said however, sometimes you have to defend yourself. If you see no other way out of it your best bet is to do what someone else said and hit hard and fast and then let whatever happens happen. Unfortuately street fights don%26#039;t follow a set plan like boxing so any amount of training or shadow boxing is going to be useless...just do as much damage as possible as quickly as possible and then just try to restrain him.
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